LGBTQIA+ Sexual Violence
What is sexual assault?
- Sexual assault may include (but is not limited to) forced vaginal or anal penetration, forced oral sex, forced touching, or any additional form of forced sexual activity.
- Sexual assault may occur on a date, between friends, partners or strangers.
Issues regarding sexual assault that are unique to the LGBTQIA+ community:
- Survivors who are not “out” may find sharing and/or reporting the sexual assault difficult or impossible.
- Due to the lack of awareness surrounding sexual assault the LGBTQIA+ community may make silence appear the only option.
- If the survivor’s community is small, the fear of other’s skepticism and/or people “taking sides” may cause the survivor to keep silent.
- Guilt and self-blame (which are common symptoms of all survivors) may lead to questioning ones sexual identity and sexuality.
- One’s own internalized homophobia may further complicate the complexities of sexual assault.
- Gay/bi male identified survivors may be apprehensive to report and fear being ignored and/or rejected as overly sensitive due to the stereotype that they are promiscuous and invited the assault upon themselves.
- Lesbian/bi women identified survivors may face being ignored or having their claims discarded if their attacker is a female because women are not socially seen as sexual perpetrators.
Common fears of LGBTQIA+ sexual violence survivors:
- Not being taken seriously or having their experience minimized.
- Not having their experience labeled as sexual assault or rape.
- Having their experience sensationalized.
- Having to explain how the assault happened in more detail than one would ask a survivor of opposite-sex assault.
- Being blamed for the assault.
- Not being understood or being blamed if it happened in an S&M environment.
- Being treated in a homophobic manner by the police, hospital staff or others.
- Mistakenly being perceived as the perpetrator.
- Being “outed.”